Three Tests for Every Spiritual Leader

It is hard to lead people toward God. There are decisions that must be made. Sometimes hard things must be spoken into the lives of individual Christians and to your community of faith. You will not please everyone. Some will even attack you personally. I have been yelled at, cussed out, and had my integrity attacked by some in my flock. Leadership does not always make you popular.

Sometimes you will want to quit. You will be tired, discouraged, and even a little afraid at times. You will not always see eye-to-eye with the other spiritual leaders in your church. You will study, pray, and wrestle with decisions. So how does a leader know he is right? How do you keep on when it is difficult? Or how do you know when the right thing to do is resign or move on?

Over the years, I have discovered three tests that have enabled me to be confident in the direction I am going as an elder. In fact, these are the only tests I use to evaluate my decisions and my course of action. Maybe they will help you also.

  1. I have to look myself in the mirror.
  2. I have to look my wife in the eyes.
  3. I will have to look my God in the face someday.

That’s it for me. My three tests for whether or not I am doing the right thing as a spiritual leader for my family and for my church.

My mirror.

My wife’s eyes.

My God’s face.

Steve loves to tell the story of Jesus. He is the Director of Ministry for Hope for Life, a Herald of Truth Ministry, and serves as an elder at the Southern Hills church of Christ in Abilene, TX. He is a popular speaker for Lectureships, seminars, and retreats, and his latest book is “Can I Tell You a Story?” He and his wife Marsha have two children and five grandchildren.
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Author:  Publish Date: May 5, 2017

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